Wednesday, December 19, 2007

MERRY CHRISTMAS (12/24-12/29)

MONDAY: Luke 1:26-38

1. Contrast Gabriel’s’ message to Zechariah (Luke 1:13-17) with his message to Mary (1:28-33). 2. How are they different? How are they alike?
3. How did Mary’s response (1:34) differ from Zechariah’s (1:18)? Why was Zechariah struck dumb (1:20) and why wasn’t Mary 1:38)?
4. What do you learn about Jesus from Gabriel’s announcement?

FAITH STEP: Zechariah was feared God but doubted. What fears do you think Mary had? Yet she did not let her fears keep her from believing God’s word to her. What fears keep you from trusting and obeying God? In what area of your life do you need to say, as Mary did, “I am the Lord’s servant, may it be as you have said.”

TUESDAY: MERRY CHRISTMAS

1. Take a few minutes this Christmas day to reflect on the birth of Jesus. (Luke 21-6). As you read about Mary waiting to give birth and there being no room at the inn – how do you think she felt – especially considering the promises God made her in Luke 1:30-35?
2. Have you ever been sick or in crisis in a strange place? How did you feel? How do you think Mary felt? How would you feel placing your newborn baby in a feeding tough? Would you feel like God let you down or that you let God down by putting his son in a manger?
3. What does this incident teach you about Mary’s faith? About God being in control?

WEDNESDAY: Luke 2:8-20

1. Why do you think God made the announcement of Jesus’ birth to shepherds? Why not religious leaders? Political leaders?
2. What was the good news the angels brought the shepherds? What was the sign they were to look for?
3. What did the shepherds do after they saw Jesus (verse 17)

FAITH STEP: What good news about Jesus has God revealed to you in your life? Are you forgiven? Saved? Who would be amazed at what you have learned about Jesus? Look for an opportunity to share with someone this week – what Jesus has done for you.

THURSDAY: Matthew 1:18-25

1. If you were in Joseph’s place how would you have felt after finding out your betrothed was pregnant? What do you think people said about Joseph and to Joseph when he decided to remain with Mary?
2. Why was Jesus to be named “Jesus” (verse 21)? Besides “Jesus” by what other name was the baby to be known? What does it mean?

FAITH STEP: What does Joseph teach you about trusting God? In what area of your life do you need to trust God even though people think your actions are stupid? Write a paragraph or share with someone a time where you have seen “Immanuel” in your life?

FRIDAY: Matthew 2:1-12

1. Why was Herod (1:6) and Jerusalem disturbed about the birth of Jesus? Where did the Wise Men visit Jesus (verse 11)?
2. Look up gold, frankincense and myrrh? Why do you think these gifts were given to Jesus?

FAITH STEP: Who or what event was the “star” that led you to find Jesus. Write a note or make a call to a person that was instrumental in helping you find Jesus and thank them for their part in leading you to the Savior. What gift can you give Jesus this week as an act of worship to Him?


SATURDAY: Take the word CHRISTMAS and make an acrostic. Use this sentence Jesus is… (Find a word that begins with C and go all the way to the end of the word.) This can be a good Life group or family project. Spend some time praising Jesus for what he has done for you.

Thursday, December 13, 2007

THE APOSTLE PAUL AND LONELINESS

This is the time of year where many of us experience the pain of loneliness. This weak we will look at how Paul dealt with loneliness and see what we can learn.

MONDAY: Acts 9:1-19 – HOW PAUL BECAME A CHRISTIAN
1. What did Paul do before becoming a Christian? (9:1-2)
2. Paul was convicted when he discovered his lifestyle was opposed to God. List two ways that guilt and sin can make you feel lonely?
3. Who did God send to help Paul with his feelings of guilt and loneliness?
4. What did Paul do when he realized he had disobeyed God (9:11, 18,19b)? How would this help him with the loneliness felt by him realizing he disobeyed God?

TUESDAY: Acts 9:20 –25 - PAUL IN DAMASCUS
1. After his conversion, what did Paul begin to do at once (vs. 20)? Would you be suspicious? Why or why not?
2. What did the Jews conspire to do? How did Paul escape? Can you think of a time when people rejected you or attempted to harm you? Did you feel lonely? Notice Paul accepted the help of his friends (verse 25). Make a list of some friends who you can call on when the loneliness of rejection hits your life. Spend time thanking God for those friends?

WEDNESDAY: Acts 9:26-31 – PAUL‘S FIRST VISIT TO JERUSALEM
1. Paul’s came to Jerusalem about 3 years after his time in Damascus (See Galatians 1:18,19). What type of reception did he receive? Who did God use to help break down the wall built between the Christians and Paul?
2. Even though Paul was misunderstood and rejected what did he do to combat the loneliness that he must have felt? (Verse 28)? One lesson we can learn is that to overcome loneliness sometimes we need to build bridges to others as Paul did. He did not go into a shell but he stayed with those who were afraid of him and he emphasized the needs of others.
3. Is there someone you know that may be lonely because they are being misjudged or doubted as Paul was? What can you do to help them?

THURSDAY: Acts 15:36-41 – PAUL AND BARNABAS HAVE AN ARGUMENT
1. What did Paul and Barnabas argue about? What was the result of their disagreement? Paul and Barnabas went through a lot together (See Acts 13-15). Why would their separation bring on loneliness?
2. Read Colossians 4:10, 2 Timothy 4:11. Did they “patch things up”? Who appeared to admit he was wrong? Are their any broken relationships that you “need to patch”?
Notice Paul did not let this “break up” keep him from forming other close relationships (Read 1 Timothy 1:2, Philemon 1 etc.). What can you do this week to strengthen your close relationships or begin building close relationships?

FRIDAY: Acts 17:13-34 - PAUL IN ATHENS
1. Paul left Timothy and Silas in Berea and went to Athens. Why was he greatly distressed in Athens?
2. As a Christian, do you, when surrounded by non-believers, ever feel lonely? Write down two reasons why?
3. Notice what Paul did when lonely in Athens. He once again built bridges (See verse 34).
As Christians what can we do to keep from being “lonely” when surrounded at work by “non-believers”? Are their other believers where you work? What can you do together to help strengthen each other?

SATURDAY: 2 Timothy 4:6-22 PAUL’S FINAL WORDS
1. Paul in prison, facing execution was experiencing loneliness. Look at verse 13.What did he ask for? How can these items help him overcome loneliness?
When alone ask yourself – what can I do now – that I can’t do when other people are around? Write a letter, study the word, pray. When alone use your time wisely.

Friday, December 7, 2007

SOLOMON ON SEX

Solomon may not have always practiced what he preached but he wrote a lot regarding God’s view on sex. This week we will explore some of what he says.

MONDAY: Read Proverbs 2:1-22

1. According to verse 6 who gives wisdom? What are the results of pursuing God’s wisdom (vs. 9, 11, 12, and 16)?
2. What does the adulteress use to capture her prey (verse 16)? By breaking her vows with her husband what else has she done (verse 17)? According to verses 18 and 19, what is the result of giving in to sexual temptation?
3. Define “discretion” (verse 11). How can it protect you?
4. What benefits come from pursuing wisdom (verses 1-6)?

FAITH STEP: Examining your life answer this question. In any area of your life have you left “the straight paths to walk in dark ways” (Verse 13)? What do you need to do to get back on that path? Who can help you?

TUESDAY: Read Proverbs 5:1-14

1. How does Solomon describe the adulteress’ language? What warnings does he give about adultery (Verses 1-6)?
2. Verses 7-14 list several consequences of sexual immorality. Can you list some?
3. How can an adulterous relationship lead to “strangers feast(ing) in your wealth and your toil enrich(ing) another man’s house?
4. How can sexual immorality cause your “flesh and body” to be spent (Verse 11)?
5. What happens to the one involved in adultery’s reputation (verse 15)?

FAITH STEP: As you watch TV this week, be aware of how the entertainment industry portrays adultery and sexual promiscuity. Write down three examples and contrast the incidents on TV with what you read in Proverbs 5. How are they alike? How are they different?

WEDNESDAY: Read Proverbs 5:15-23

1. Proverbs 2:8-9 States that God and His wisdom can help protect us from the seduction of adultery and sexual immorality. In Proverbs 5:15-19 what other person can help us to ward off sexual temptation?
2. In what does Solomon say we are to rejoice?
3. What do the verbs used in Proverbs 5:18-19 teach us about God’s view of sex and marriage? What do we learn about God’s view of sex in these verses? (Hebrew 13:4, I Corinthians 7:3-5, Mark 10:6-9).
4. What teachings in verses 21-23 should motivate us to stay pure?

FAITH STEP: How does God’s view of sex differ from your own? How has your view of sex affected your marriage? Relationships? God does not condemn sex. In fact he created it and says it’s good when done his way. It is the perversion and abuse of sex that God condemns. Many have been victims of sexual abuse. If you have been what should you do to fund the help and healing you need? If you have received help and healing who can you help who may be carrying the guilt and shame of abuse?

THURSDAY: Read Proverbs 6:20-35
According to verses 20-24 who has the responsibility to teach children about God’s plan for sex?
1. What three dangers, found in this passage should we teach adolescents about sexual immorality?
2. What “picture words” used here grab your attention?
3. According to verse 23, what is the way to life?

FAITH STEP: What plans have you made in order to talk to your children about God’s creation of sex? What do you want to tell them? If your children or grown or you have no children - write down what you wish your parents would have taught you about sex and share it with someone with children? Need help? Find a mature Christian and ask for their advice. Pray for the children in your family asking God to use you to teach them God’s commands in a way that will guide them throughout life.

FRIDAY: Read Proverbs 7:1-27

Solomon spends much of the first seven chapters of Proverbs dealing with the sin of sexual immorality – specifically adultery and prostitution. Verses 6-23 almost sound autobiographical. 1. How does the adulteress’ seduction appeal to the five senses of the young man being led astray?
2. What do verses 22-23 teach you about the power of sexual sin?
3. Read I Corinthians 6:18-20. What sets sexual sin apart from other sins?

FAITH STEP: If you are struggling with sexual sin seek help at a website like www.xxxchurch.com or contact a Christian counselor.

SATURDAY: Read John 8:1-11

1. Many people carry the guilt of sexual sin. Turn and read John 8: 1-11. What sin was this woman guilty of?
2. What did Jesus show the woman when he challenged her accusers that “the one without sin should throw the first stone”? (See Romans 3:23)
3. After everyone left what comforting words did Jesus give to the woman (verse 11)? What similar promise does God give his children in Romans 8:1?
4. What challenge does Jesus give the woman in verse 11?

FAITH STEP: The good news is that in Christ we are NOT condemned. Like the woman caught in adultery we too can be assured that we are not alone in sin, that if we confess our sin to Jesus we will not be condemned and tat with his power we can make positive life changes. Do not let Satan’s guilt rob you of the peace we have in Christ and do not let past mistakes keep you from now enjoying God’s gift of sex within the parameters he has set for our protection and blessing.

Friday, November 30, 2007

Priorities

As we began our sermon series on Samson this week (“Stay Strong”) we looked at the importance of setting priorities and focusing on God’s purpose. This week’s studies will help us see the priorities God wants us to set in our lives.


MONDAY: GOD’S #1

A “priority” is something that is precedes other things in importance. Pleasing God is to be the priority in our life. Today we will look at why God should be the priority of our life. Read the following Scriptures and write down what you learn about God.

Psalm 24:1-2, Psalm 27, Nahum 1:7, Revelation 1:8, John 3:16.

FAITH STEP: Find three other Bible verses that show why God is to be the priority in our life. Share them with your small group our family.

TUESDAY: SEEK GOD FIRST

1. Read Matthew 6:25-34. What is Jesus discussing when he commands his disciples to seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness?
2. How can worry keep us from being focused on God? How can seeking God first help you deal with worry?
3. What does it mean to seek first “(God’s) kingdom and righteousness”?

FAITH STEP: Write down your top three worries. Now pray about them. Can you find a promise from God to counteract these worries? In what area’s of your life do you need to seek God’s righteousness? Who can help you do that?

WEDNESDAY: EXCUSES

1. Read Luke 14:15-24. What excuses did those invited to the banquet make? What areas of their lives took precedence over God?
2. Read verse 24. Why did those who rejected the invitation lose the blessings of being at the banquet? In what areas of your life have you rejected God’s invitation?
3. What implication does verse 23 have for our lives today?

FAITH STEP: List five excuses that people often use to say “no” to God’s invitation. What answer would you give those people? Who do you know that you can invite this week to the “banquet”? Make an effort to do so before Sunday.

THURSDAY: PRIORITIES OF A DISCIPLE

1. Read Luke 17:1-3. According to Jesus what is one priority that we are to have? What does Jesus mean when he says “watch yourself”?
2. Read 1 Timothy 4:12. In what five areas are we to set examples?

FAITH STEP: Review and rate yourself in regards to the five areas we are to set good examples in. Using a scale of 1 to 5, with five being never and 5 being always how would you rate the example you set to your family and co-workers when it comes to the five areas mentioned in Timothy. What changes do you need to make in your habits, actions, relationships or attitude in order to set a better example?

FRIDAY: PRIORITIES OF A DISCIPLE – Part 2

1. Read again Luke 17:1-6. Why should rebuking a fellow believer, caught in sin, be a priority? (See James 5:20)
2. Read Galatians 6:1-2. What attitudes should we have in confronting someone in sin? What words would describe the opposite attitude?
3. Why do you think the disciples in Luke 17:5, after hearing Jesus’ commands ask for an increased faith?
4. In verse 6 Jesus encourages them by stating that to do what he is commanding takes little faith. Instead of focusing on our small faith we should focus on the great God who is the object of our faith.

FAITH STEP: Do you know someone who is trapped in sin and needs to gently and lovingly be confronted? What do you need to do?

SATURDAY: JESUS IS LORD

Define the word “lord”. Take the letters L-O-R-D and (maybe as a family or small group project) develop an acrostic using the letters L-O-R-D, coming up with four words or phrases that describe the lordship of Christ. What does your acrostic teach you about the lordship of Jesus?

Wednesday, November 21, 2007

LOVING LIKE CHRIST

“A new commandment I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. By this all men will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.” John 13:34-35

The above verses were quoted by Jesus at the Last Supper. It was there after washing the disciples’ feet and prior to his crucifixion that he laid down the principle that was to become the church’s guide in developing relationships and reaching a lost world. This was a new command one that when obeyed would change the world. We are going to look at this command in detail this week.

MONDAY: A NEW COMMAND

1. Compare Leviticus 19:18 with John 13:34. What difference made Jesus’ command new?
2. Read Romans 5:6-10. What words describe our situation when Jesus died for us? How would you describe Christ’s love for you in these verses? 3. If we are to love each other like Jesus loves us, then what attitudes and actions, according to these verses, do you need to change in your relationship with others?

FAITH STEP: Begin memorizing John 13:34-35. Write it on a card and take it with you this week.

TUESDAY: THE EXAMPLE OF CHRIST’S LOVE

1. Read John 13:1-13. What example of love does Jesus leave for us? How would you have felt if you were Peter? Judas? John?
2. Read Philippians 2:5-7. How did Jesus “make himself nothing”? In what relationships do we need to “make ourselves nothing”? What do you think “makes yourselves nothing” means?

FAITH STEP: As a family or a LIFE group do you have enough faith to literally wash someone’s feet? What did you learn about yourself? Jesus?

WEDNESDAY: THE MEANING OF CHRIST’S LOVE

1. What issues were the disciples concerned about as Jesus was preparing them for his death? (Luke 22:24; Mark 10:35-45)
2. Why did Jesus wash the disciples feet (John 13:15)? This action had to be a shock to the disciples. Jesus’ action threatened them, convicted them of their selfish pride and violated their cultural tradition. Their relationship with each other had been a competition for position as they attempted to outdo and control one another. Jesus came along and said love one another by serving one another.
3. Read John 15:12-13. How does Jesus describe great love?

FAITH STEP: Write down five things you have done in the past two weeks that demonstrated Christ’s love to someone else. Ask God to help you look at people, interruptions and problems as opportunities to reflect Christ’s love by serving others.

THURSDAY: LETTING THE WORLD KNOW

1. According to John 13:35 how will the lost world recognize followers of Jesus?
This is a awesome responsibility because by this command Jesus is saying that he is choosing to show the world his love through the way his people treat each other. Our first step in evangelism is to love each other like Jesus loves us.
2. After reading the following Scriptures write down one thing from each passage that shows how we are to love each other. (Romans 12:10, I Peter 4:8, Ephesians 4:2, I Corinthians 13:4-7)

FAITH STEP: Review the qualities you listed from the Scriptures above. Rank them in order with one being the quality your are best at showing and the last one being the quality where you need to show the most improvement. What does your actions and words say to the world about your love for ALL your fellow Christians?

FRIDAY: LOVING ONE ANOTHER

1. "Love" is an action word. It is seen in our attitudes and actions toward one another. Today we are going to look at some one another verses that the world can observe and see the love we have for each other.
2. Read the following Scriptures, write down the command and then write beside it a name of someone you need to love by fulfilling that command. (Romans 12:10b, Romans 15:7, Galatians 5:13, Galatians 6:2, Ephesians 5:21, Colossians 3:13, I Thessalonians 5:11, I Peter 4:9)

FAITH STEP: Pick one of the names you wrote down and this week do something to fulfill that command towards that individual.

SATURDAY: LOVING ONE ANOTHER AS A FAMILY

Locate your role(s) and rate yourself after reading the Scripture 1 to 5 with “one” being I never do that and “five” being usually.

HUSBANDS: (Ephesians’ 5:1-2, Ephesians 5:25, I Peter 3:7, Ephesians 5:21, I Corinthians 7:4, 5, Philippians 2:4, 7)
WIVES: Ephesians 5:1-2, Ephesians 5:22, I Corinthians 7:4, 5, I Peter 3:4 Philippians 2:4, 7)
PARENTS: Colossians 3:21, I Thessalonians 2:11-12, Ephesians 6:4, Deuteronomy 6:6-7)
CHILDREN: Ephesians 6:1, Ephesians 6:2, Proverbs 23:22, Leviticus 19:32, Proverbs 20:20)

Thursday, November 15, 2007

GOOD NEWS

MONDAY: THE DAY OF GOOD NEWS

1. In 2 Kings 6 and 7 we read the story of Aram’s King Ben- Hadad laying siege upon Samaria. The siege was so severe that people resorted to eating their on children (6:28). Read 2 Kings 7:3-9 to see how the siege ended.
2. Why did the leper’s say “they were not doing right” (verse 9). What was the good news?

FAITH STEP: What good news do we have as Christians? (See John 11:35, John 3:16, Romans 8:1). Make a list of the blessings we have found in the above verses. Than write the name of someone you know who could benefit from theses blessings. Have you kept the good news from them? Ask God to give you the opportunity to share Christ with that person.

TUESDAY: PROCLAIMING GOOD NEWS - PHILIP

1. Sometimes we can become sidetracked by peripheral issues when it comes to discussing spiritual issues with others. Today we want to look at one of the Bible’s great soul winners and see what the crux of his message was.
2. Philip the evangelist was sent to Samaria and to a desert road. What did he proclaim according to Acts 8:5,35? What Old Testament Scripture was the eunuch reading? Who was the Scripture talking about?
3. What good news do you think Philip found in the Isaiah passage being discussed?
4. How do we know that Philip’s message included water baptism?
5. How did the eunuch respond after his baptism?

FAITH STEP: Write a sentence or to on why and how you rejoiced after your came to Christ. What three words would you write down if someone asked you how your life has changed since you became a Christian? Share with someone this week, maybe in your family or small group, the reasons you can rejoice since you have become a Christian.


WEDNESDAY: PROCLAIMING GOOD NEWS – SAUL OF TARSUS IN DAMASCUS

1. Read the story of the Conversion of Saul in Acts 9:1-19 (if you have children you may want to act this story out or draw a picture of the event together). What example of Paul do you see that you should apply in your life?
2. What did Paul preach in Damascus after his conversion (9:20)?
3. How did his listeners first react (9: 21-22)

FAITH STEP: If someone asked you, “How do you know Jesus is the Son of God”, what would you say? This website, Apologetics Press (http://www.apologeticspress.org/) has some good information including free on line Bible lessons. Also check out the Does God Exist site. http://www.doesgodexist.org/ It has an article on Jesus being the Son of God.

THURSDAY: PROCLAIMING GOOD NEWS - THE APOSTLE PAUL

1. We know that Saul of Tarsus changed his name to Paul. In his letter to the Corinthians Paul tells us what his message consisted of. According to I Corinthians 2:2 what did Paul preach about?
2. Read Matthew 27:33-50. What three words would you use to describe the crucifixion of Jesus? The article at this website: http://www.carm.org/misc/crucifixion.htm can explain the physical torment of the crucifixion

FAITH STEP: Read the following Scriptures then write down from each Scripture what blessing that you have received because of the death of Jesus: Isaiah 53:5, I Peter 3:18, Revelation 5:9, 2 Corinthians 5:15, Titus 2:14, Revelation 1:5

FRIDAY: PROCLAIMING GOOD NEWS - THE APOSTLE PAUL – Part 2

1. Read II Corinthians 4:5. What did Paul say he preached?
2. Look up the definition of “lord”. What do you find?
3. According to Romans 10:9 what is a condition of salvation?
4. According to Matthew 7:21, what does lordship involve?

FAITH STEP: How can you better reveal Jesus as Lord at work/school? Home? Church? If your friends were asked who had the ultimate authority in your life – how would the answer?

SATURDAY: One way to proclaim Jesus is to tell people what he has done in your life. Write a short paragraph answering the following questions. What was your life like before you met Jesus? How did you become A Christian (who influenced you, taught you etc.) How has Jesus made your life better? Find someone with whom you can your story. After all proclaiming Christ is nothing more than sharing your story on how he saved you.

Thursday, November 8, 2007

LEARNING FROM COLOSSIANS

Colosse was a city in decline during the time of Paul. It was near the growing cities of Laodicea and Hierapolis. Paul probably never visited the city but heard about it through Epaphras, the evangelist who planted the church. Paul wrote the letter, at the request of Epaphras, because of some strange teachings that de-emphasized the Supremacy of Jesus. This false teaching is described in Colossians 2:8, 16-23. It involved some old Jewish teachings (2:16f), the worship of angels (2:18) and extreme asceticism (reaching a higher spiritual state through self-punishment). The theme of the book is that Jesus is sufficient – we need no one else or nothing else but Him for salvation. This week we will read the book of Colossians. After reading the assigned passage answers using the S.P.A.C.E.P.E.T.S. questions below for each day. Record your answers and look for ways to put what you learn into practice. Is there any … Sin for me to confess?
Prayer for me to pray
Attitude for me to change?
Command for me to obey?
Example for me to follow?
Promise for me to claim?
Error for me to avoid?
Truth for me to believe?
Something to thank or praise God for?

MON: Colossians 1:1-14 - Paul begins the letter with giving thanks for the Colossian Christians (3-8) and offering a prayer for their maturity (9-14).

TUES: Colossians 1:15-23 – The first six verses of this section is a hymn celebrating the Godhood of Christ. Paul attacks the false teaching that attempts to persuade folks to worship angels and obey Jewish law by declaring the supremacy of Jesus. The last three verses apply the truths about Jesus found in the hymn to our lives.

WED: Colossians 1:24-2:5 – Paul continues to fight the false doctrine being taught in Colosse. He begins by sharing how he has served the church (1:24-2:5). Sharing the sacrifices he made for Christ gives Paul credibility as he teaches the Colossians that Jesus and only Jesus is Lord and Savior.

THURS: Colossians 2:6-23 – Paul warns the Colossians not to be deceived and continue to look to Jesus as Lord. He emphasizes the Deity of Jesus and in verse 16 and following describes the elements of the false teaching as he points the Colossians to Christ.

FRI: Colossians 3:1-4:1 – In chapter 3 Paul contrasts true Christian living with the heresy being taught. Notice the first four verses focus on Jesus versus the angel worship etc. being taught. Notice most if not all of these virtues deal with relationships.

SAT: Colossians 4:2-18 – Paul closes the letter asking for prayer for himself as he class the readers to a more devoted prayer life. He closes the letter with final instructions and greetings.

Friday, November 2, 2007

STAYING FOCUSED IN A CYNICAL WORLD

This past Sunday we studied how cynicism can rob us of joy, peace and God’s blessings. A “cynic” is someone who is inclined to question the sincerity and goodness of a person’s motives and actions. They are often sarcastic, judgmental and negative. We all can fall victim to cynicism. Often cynical people have been hurt, lost hope, been disappointed and/or have felt mistreated or taken for granted. This week we are going to review the various ways a cynic may react and how we can help prevent becoming cynical.

MONDAY: JUDAS THE MORALIST

1. Read John 12:1-11. Where was Jesus eating dinner? What amazing event had recently happened there?
2. Who was Mary (See John 11:28-43)? What act of extravagance did she do? Why did she do it?
3. What did Judas say should have been done with the perfume? What was his motive?
Sometimes cynics can come across as moral when in reality their concerns are rooted more in selfishness than in selflessness.

FAITH STEP: One group that is a constant target of cynicism is politicians. Cynics generally feel all leaders are buffoons or crooks. Read I Timothy 2:1-2. Make a list of leaders in your community, nation and world. Regardless of your political philosophy, or your opinions on the war economy etc take your list and pray for these men and women. Did you include the President? What about the leader of Iraq? Iran? Your mayor? Congressman? Governor? Senator? One consequence of cynicism is that it keeps us from praying for our leaders.


TUESDAY: FELIX THE PROCRASTINATOR

Read Acts 24:1-27

1. What charges were made against Paul by his enemies?
2. Who was Felix? Why did Felix keep putting Paul off (verse 26)? Why do you think Felix was afraid? Why did he leave Paul in prison?

FAITH STEP: Cynics often try to intimidate by procrastination. Sometimes the motive is fear (they are afraid to try something new so they discourage others from going ahead). Sometimes the motive can be greed (They do not want to make a commitment they may cost them something so they resist the change). What commitment are you putting off that you know God wants you to make? Maybe you are using some of these excuses? “Nobody will listen to me if I teach”; It won’t do any good anyway”; I am not ready yet”, Take a step of faith for God this week.

WEDNESDAY: ELIAB THE SHAMER
1. Read 1 Samuel 17:1-58. Who was Eliab? Why did he burn with anger? Why do you think he was angry at David (verse 11, 16)?
2. Look at how the cynic Eliab treated David (verse 28): How did he make David feel as if he didn’t belong? How did he try to hurt his self-esteem? How did he question his motives? Why might Eliab be cynical towards David (See I Samuel 6:6-13)?
3. How did David react to the cynical attack made on him (verses 29-37)? What was his motive for fighting Goliath?

FAITH STEP: Cynics are often dream killers. We may have an idea or feel as if God is leading us into a certain direction in our life and cynicism will attack it. That idea will never work, who do you think you are to try that? That is an absurd idea. If possible use this story and have your family or life group act it out as someone narrates. Reflect on how Eliab’s attitude differed from David’s and what we can learn from that. Another option is to read the story and write down three words that describes Eliab’s attitude and three words’ that describe David’s. Now write down a “giant you are facing in your life: A relationship giant? Bad habit? A struggle? Which of the two lists (Eliab’s are David’s) best describe your attitude toward the giants in your life? How can you better face these giants? Who can you talk to help you in facing your giants?

THURSDAY: SANBALLAT AND TOBIAH THE RIDICULERS

Nehemiah was commissioned by God to rebuild the broken walls of Jerusalem. Opposition to this project was swift and intense but under Nehemiah’s leadership the task was successfully completed. The opposition to the building project began in Nehemiah 4. Read verses 1-15.

1. Look up and write down the definition of “ridicule”. What tactics did Sanballat and Tobiah use to ridicule the builders? Can you name at least three ways they ridiculed the builders?
2. How did Nehemiah deal with the ridiculers? What prayer did he pray? What plans did he change? What encouragement did he give the people?

FAITH STEP: The old adage “sticks and stones may break my bones, but names will never hurt” is a myth. Words can hurt. Can you think of some “names” you received in the past or are receiving presently? The best way to fight fear and hurts is to claim the truth. Read the following verses and write down the verses and replace the personal pronouns or subject nouns with your name in all capitals. (Jeremiah 31:3, Romans 5:8, Ephesians 2:4-5, I John 3:1, I John 3:16, ) What did you learn about God’s feelings for you? How can these facts help you better handle ridicule?

FRIDAY: SANBALLAT AND GESHEM THE FEAR MONGERS

1. Read Nehemiah 6:1-9. Why did Nehemiah’s tormentors want to meet with him (verse2)?
2. How did Nehemiah answer the request (verse 3)?
3. What was the intent of sending an unsealed letter (verses 6-9)?
4. How did Nehemiah respond the cynics’ attempt to distract him by fear (Verses 3, 8, 10)?

FAITH STEP: Pull out your schedule and calendar. Sometimes we can become sidetracked. Nehemiah’s enemies tried to get him to stop building the walls in order to meet with them. Often Satan can get us involved in so many things – some of them good – that we don’t have time for what is best. A neat exercise is to take a weekly calendar and write down what you would like to do that week (Daily quiet time, Life Group etc), than go back over it at the end of the day and write in red what you did do. What did you discover about your time management? Did you waste more time than you thought? Look for ways to rearrange your schedule so you have more time for God in your life.
Ask God to remove any fears you may have in your life that is keeping you from glorifying him with your life.

SATURDAY: We learned this past Sunday that Anna was able to overcome a cynical world by perseverance, daily prayer, praising God and promoting Jesus to others. Re read Luke 2:36-38. Praising God is an important part of staying focused in our world. Play Alphabet praise today. This game is played by filling in the blank to this statement… “God is _____” Start with “A” and go through “Z” Make it a family game and make a list of the attributes you came up with and then offer a prayer of praise to the Father.

Friday, October 26, 2007

GETTING AND GIVING FORGIVENESS

God wants people to feel forgiven and offer forgiveness to others. Yet today many are burdened with guilt and are divided by anger, resentment and stress. This week we will explore God’s word as we discover the joy and peace that comes from accepting and giving forgiveness.

MONDAY: THE PAIN OF BEING UNFORGIVEN

1. David wrote Psalm 32 after he was confronted with the adulterous relationship he had with Bathsheba and the eventual murder of her husband (2 Samuel 11-12). In this Psalm he graphically describes the pain that fills a guilt-laden heart.
2. Read Psalm 32:1-2 - How does David describe a man who finds God forgiveness?
What physical affects did his guilt have on David? (Psalm 32:3-4)
3. In the midst of his guilt induced fatigue and frustration, what did David finally do? (Psalm 32:5) What resulted from David’s actions (32:5b)?
4. What one word would you use to describe David’s attitude/situation in Psalm 32:1-4? What one word would you use to describe David’s attitude/situation in Psalm 32:5-11?

FAITH STEP: What sins do you need to confess to God? Confess them in prayer and than claim his promises. Write down the last 7 words of Psalm 32:5 on an index card and carry it with you this week. Every time Satan tries to make you feel guilty over confessed sin, pull it out and read it aloud. Enjoy the forgiveness we have in Christ.

TUESDAY: THE PURCHASE OF FORGIVENESS

1. Read Ezekiel 18:4, 20; Romans 6:23. What is the ultimate consequence of sin?
2. God in his mercy, knowing that we could not save ourselves, allowed for a substitute to pay our debt for us. God in his wisdom provided that the innocent could die for the guilt, the pure could die in the place of the impure. This plan satisfied God’s justice while allowing his mercy to erase the marks of our sin. The problem was who could be found that was holy, pure and righteous to be acceptable to God as a substitute for us. God found the answer in His Son. Read 2 Corinthians 5:21. Who became sin for us? Why did he do this?
3. God’s forgiveness is freely offered to us, but it was not free. What price did Jesus pay for our forgiveness? Read these verse and write down the cost found in each verse – Isaiah 53:6, John 1:14, Hebrews 2:14-17, 2 Corinthians 5:21)

FAITH STEP: Romans 3:23 says the eternal life is a gift from God. But even though it is freely given to us we can see that the forgiveness we enjoy came at a great price to Jesus. Take a few minutes and write a thank you note to Jesus – thanking him for the gift he gave you.

WEDNESDAY: THE PAST IS PAST

1. 2 Samuel 11-12 tells the heartbreaking story of David and Bathsheba. While reading these chapters look for the answers to the following:
After David learned that Bathsheba was pregnant what plan did he develop in order to get rid of her husband?
How did God feel about David’s actions? (11:27)
What did Nathan say about David’s sin? (12:9-10)
How did David respond to Nathan’s rebuke? Did God forgive David? Did Davis still pay consequences for his sin? (12: 13)
2. Read 1 Kings 14:8. How does God later describe David? What does that shoe you about God?

FAITH STEP: David was not forgiven because of good works but because he confessed and repented of his sins. I Kings 14 shows us how God saw David after he confessed his sins. God didn’t see David in that light because he was innocent but because he was FORGIVEN! Are their sins you are still feeling guilty for that God has already forgiven? You need to act on those false feelings of guilt and claim God’s promises. God still did great things with David’s life after his sin and he will still use you for his glory as well. The past is past and I am free to live for God today! If there are sins you need to confess do so than move on in the light of God’s grace.

THURSDAY: LEARNING TO FORGIVE

The past three days we have tried to grasp the God’s forgiveness that HE has offered us. Learning how we are forgiven helps us to be forgiving. In a world where resentment and revenge rules the day it is good to know that in Christ we can find the freedom of that comes form being forgiving.

1. Read Colossians 3:13. What does it mean to “bear” with one another? List two ways that your family, friends or co-workers “bear” with you? According to this verse how are to forgive?
2. Read Ephesians 4:32. How are we to forgive each other?
3. Read 1 Corinthians 13:5. What does a loving person do with the wrongs committed against him?
4. The word for love in 1 Corinthians 13 is the Greek word for “unconditional love”. It is a commitment to do the right thing in spite of your feelings. Forgiveness too is a choice. It is doing the loving thing, desiring what is best for the one that hurt you in spite of your feelings. It is a process – a step of faith. It is releasing the one that hurt you from any desires to get revenge. It is being like God.

FAITH STEP: Who do you need to forgive? Write down their name. Pray FOR them (not about them), asking God to bless them and asking God to help you act more forgiving.

FRIDAY: HOW OFTEN SHOULD I FORGIVE?

1. Read Matthew 18:21-35. Peter putting a number on his question (7 times) shows that he was still being legalist-still keeping score. What did Jesus mean when he said to Peter you are to forgive 70 X 7 times (or 77 times)?
2. “The kingdom of heaven” in verse 23 does not refer to a physical realm but to the rule and reign of God. Jesus is saying in verse 23 that If you claim God as your king than this story illustrates how you are to live. Which character in this story does God want us to be like? Which one more accurately describes your relationship with others?
3. This parable can be divided into three scenes. Scene 1 is found in verses 23-27. Scenes two is found in verses 28-31 and scene three is found in verses 32-34. What title would you give each scene?
4. What was the only thing that saved the servant who owed the big debt? What is the only thing that saves you from the debt you owed God?
5. What does verse 35 teach us about forgiveness?

FAITH STEP: If you have children you may want to have a family time where you have each member act out the parable as the narrator reads the story. What lessons can you teach them? If you do not have children read the parable and ask. “What example in this story should I follow? What attitude should I avoid? What prayer should I pray after reading this story?

SATURDAY: OVERCOMING RESENTMENT

1. Forgiveness is something we need to do, not only because God commands it but because it is what is best for us. Resentment and hatred allows the one we resent to continue to control our life. Read the following Scriptures and jot down how resentment affected these people - Mark 16:18-19, Genesis 37:4, Acts 23:12.

2. Read Romans 12:17-21 to sees God’s cure for a resentful heart. Who is that you can do “good to” today to help you on the road to forgiving them? Think of something you can do and do it before Monday. Pray for God to help you grow I forgiveness.

Friday, October 19, 2007

MONEY

God says a lot about money, one reason being we spend most of our life making it, saving it and spending it. It is a central part of our existence therefore we should look at God’s word to make sure that we are handling it in a way that gives him the glory He is due. This week we will look at the Bible and some of the things it says about money.

MONDAY: LOVING MONEY
The Bible never suggests that it is a sin to be rich. In fact, some great men of faith have been among the wealthiest people of their day—men like Job, Abraham, David, and Solomon. It was God who gave these men their riches. However, while money itself is not sinful, the love of money is the root of all kinds of evil. People who set their hearts on getting more money may eventually try anything, sacrifice morals and compromise values to achieve their goal.
1. Read Deuteronomy 8:18. Who gives the ability to get money?
2. What is the root of all kinds of evil (I Timothy 6:10)?
2. Read 1 Timothy 6:9. What happens to those whose goal in life is to accumulate wealth? What type of harmful and foolish desires can you think of that would tempt someone who loves money?

FAITH STEP: Looking at loving God or loving money, how do you know which is number 1 in your life? Make of list of at least three attitudes that a person who loves money would have? Find three Scriptures that talk about those attitudes. What do you learn? Pray asking God to delver you from those attitudes?

TUESDAY: FINDING CONTENTMENT

1. Look up the definition of “contentment”. What does it mean?
2. Hebrews 13:5-7. With what are we to be content? What to promises from God are found in this passage that should help us be content?
3. Read Philippians 4:10-13. What has Paul learned to be in spite of his circumstances? What do you think his secret is? (4:13)

FAITH STEP: Paul said he “learned” the secret of contentment. That means we too can learn to find contentment in any and every situation. How can the promises of God’s presence (Hebrews 13: 5), God’s provision (Hebrews13:6) and God’s power (Philippians 4:13) help you be content in life? Philippians 4:13 is often a verse taken out of context. Paul is not saying that God will allow me to do whatever I want in any and every situation. Of course God’s power can do that but there are things God does not intend to do (for example he did not remove Paul’s “thorn in the flesh”- 2 Corinthians 12:7-9). What Paul is saying that he has learned that he can endure every situation by depending on the strength provided by Christ. This week work on memorizing Philippians 4:13 and Hebrews 13:5.

WEDNESDAY: THE DANGER OF WEALTH

1. God does not condemn wealth, but he does warn of its dangers. Read Mark 10:17-31. Notice the man asked “what must I DO to inherit eternal life” (verse 17)? Who was he depending on for his salvation? How does that contrast to the attitude Jesus says we must have in Mark 10:15?
2. Why do you think Jesus told him to sell all he had and give it to the poor? Why do you think the man could not do what Jesus asked?
3. Mark 10:23-26 says it is very hard for the rich to be saved. According to 10:27 we can be saved only because of the work of God – not because of our worthiness.

FAITH STEP: You have probably read something similar to this before. While it may not be completely totally accurate it does illustrate a reality. The poorest of Americans are among the riches people in the world. “If we scaled down the world’s population so that we can see it as a global village of 100 people, it would break down like this. Of those 100 people, 70 would be unable to read and only one would have a college education. 50 would be suffering from malnutrition and over 80 would be living in substandard housing. Six of the villagers would be Americans and those six would possess half of the village's entire income. The rest of the 94 would exist on the other half. All 100 would need a Savior.” With the above information in mind, how does Mark 10:17-31 relate to me. Is there a possession that could keep me from inheriting eternal life?


THURSDAY: HOW GOD WANTS ME TO USE MONEY

1. Read I Timothy 6:17-19. List three examples from the news or your own experience that shows that wealth is uncertain. Why does God provide us what we need? What does he want us to be rich in? What does he want us to be willing to do?
2. Read Matthew 6:19-21. How does one store up treasures in heaven? What does the way you use your money show about where your heart is?
3. Read 2 Corinthians 9:11. Why does God bless us?

FAITH STEP: Read I John 3:16-17. Who can you think of that could benefit from your generosity? What are you going to do about this week?

FRIDAY: GIVING TO GOD

1. Read I Corinthians 16:1-2. On which day does God want me to give to His church? On which week?
2. Read 2 Corinthians 9:6-7. What promise does God make? What type of giver does God love?
3. Reading Malachi 3:10, Leviticus 27:30. What did God expect his people to give in the Old Testament? What is a “tithe? What do you think God expect His people to give today?

FAITH STEP: When is the last time you and your household prayerfully discussed how much you should give? Read 2 Corinthians 8:1-7. Write down three characteristics of the Macedonian’s giving. What impresses you about their attitude? As a family discuss and pray about your giving. This Sunday when you give focus on counting your blessings while “the basket is being past”. Make it a time of praise and thanksgiving.

SATURDAY: Look up the word “money” in your concordance. Find five verses and write them down. What lessons do you learn from each verse? Jot down at least five lessons learned. How can you apply these lessons to your life? Pray that God helps you be content with what you have, and that he will guide you as you use the money and possessions he blesses you for His glory.

Friday, October 12, 2007

BUILDING FAITH IN FAMILIES

This past Sunday we looked at the importance of establishing healthy family traditions. In this week’s study we will visit the home of Timothy to see how his family passed down a tradition of faith.

MONDAY: BUILDING A TRADITION OF FAITH

Timothy was a young preacher that was probably converted during Paul’s first missionary journey. Later the young man traveled with Paul and was sent to Ephesus to help the church deal with some heresy being taught. The books of 1 and 2 Timothy are letters written by Paul to his young protégé advising him on how to deal with being an evangelist. Let’s see what we can learn about his family.

1. Read Acts 16:1. What do we learn about Timothy’s mother? His father? 2. Read 2 Timothy 1:1-7. Who were Eunice and Lois? How does Paul describe their faith?
3. Paul said that their faith “lived in them”? What does it mean when someone’s faith “lives in them”?
4. Look at 2 Timothy 1:8. Why did Paul remind Timothy of the faith of his mother and grandmother?

FAITH STEP: How would your family/friends describe your faith? In what areas can they see your faith living in you? In what areas of your life do you need to show more faith? Make a list and ask God to help you be more faithful in those areas.

TUESDAY: PASSING YOUR FAITH ALONG: RELATIONSHIPS

1. The faith that lived in Lois and Eunice now lived in Timothy (2 Timothy 1:5). Look at the following verses and write down what evidence you find that shows Timothy had “caught” the faith passed down to him by his mother and grandmother . (Hebrews 13:23, Acts 17:13-15, 2 Timothy 4:14-15)
2. Read 2 Timothy 3:14-15. There are two factors that are key in building a tradition of faith. One factor is relationships (“…because you know those from whom you learned it…”) Not only did Lois and Eunice have a close relationship with Timothy, but they made sure that Timothy had relationships with other faithful Christians (like Paul).
3. In 2 Timothy 3:10-11 there are nine things listed that Timothy knew about from his relationship with Paul. Can you list them? How do you think witnessing these things in Paul’s life helped build Timothy’s faith? 4. What do you think Timothy learned from Paul about purpose? Faith? Patience? Love? The Lord?

FAITH STEP: Making sure your family has relationships with strong Christians is essential in building a tradition of faith. Do the friends your family “hangs around with” build your family’s faith? Make plans this week to spend some time with friends that will allow your children to see Christian faithfulness in action.

WEDNESDAY: PASSING YOUR FAITH ALONG: THE WORD
1. Return to 2 Timothy 3:14:15. The second key to passing faith along is found in verse 15. What was Timothy taught from infancy? What did teaching these make Timothy?
2. According to 2 Timothy 3:16. Where does Scripture come from? Why is it useful?
3. What is the result of the proper use of Scripture (3:17)? Is that a goal you have for every member of your family?

FAITH STEP: Timothy was taught Scripture from infancy but it is never too late to start teaching your family. What can you do in your household to help its members know the Holy Scripture? Try putting a list of 10-12 memory verses on the wall. As a family take a few minutes each day to work on memorizing a verse. When a member memorizes a verse, place a star by their name and have a family celebration. Set of goal of having all the verses memorized by a certain date. Make it fun! IF this doesn’t work think of something else. Be creative!

THURSDAY: IT TAKES THEM BOTH!
In 2 Timothy 3:14-15 we learned in order pass on a tradition of faith in our homes we need to have relationships with faith-building people AND Bile teaching. One without the other will not be effective. Teaching Scripture but having a teacher who does not live Scripture leads to resentment and cynicism. Living a “good life” but not properly teaching the Word of God leads to people missing the good news of Jesus. Building a tradition of faith takes both.

1. What does Paul tell Timothy to watch (1 Timothy 4:16)?
What is “doctrine”? According to the last part of 2 Timothy 2:15, how can one watch their doctrine?
2. 1 Timothy 4:12 gives tells us we can watch our life by being an example. In what 5 ways was Timothy told to be an example?
3. Paul tells Timothy to persevere in watching theses two areas (1 Timothy 4:16). Who will be saved by Timothy’s watchfulness?

FAITH STEP: Of the two areas mentioned, which do you need to be more watchful of? Look at I Timothy 4:12. Using a rating scale with one being “poor” and ten being “perfect”, rate your example when it comes to your speech. What about your lifestyle? The way you love? Your faith? Your purity? In what areas do you need to improve? How has your example helped in building faith in your family? How has it hurt?

FRIDAY: Refer back to Acts 16:1-2. We learn that Timothy’s father was a Greek (implying he was not a believer). We also can assume that he was not a practicing Jew because Timothy had never been circumcised, as required by Jewish law. The verb tense of “was” in referring to the father may imply that he was dead. Whatever the case Timothy did not have the positive religious influence of a father. I want us to look at some other folks who had to overcome one or more unbelieving parents to find a relationship with God.

1. Read 2 Kings 16:1-4. What sins did Ahaz commit as king? Now turn to 2 Kings 18:1-8. List three characteristics that describe the reign of Ahaz’s son Hezekiah?
2. Read 2 Kings 21:19-26. What sins characterized the reign of Amon? Read 2 Kings 22:1-2. What virtues characterized the reign of Amon’s son, Josiah?
3. Even if you came from a home that did not have a tradition of faithfulness to God, you can break the cycle and begin again just like Hezekiah and Josiah did. Begin by finding a Bible believing church and becoming a student of the word.

FAITH STEP: If you are a seeker e-mail for more info on how to become a child of God. If you are a child of God find someone this week who desires to find faith, pray for them and invite them to church or LIFE group.

SATURDAY: Revisit the life of Timothy by reading the letters that Paul wrote to him. (I and II Timothy) After each chapter write down one lesson you learned. You may be able to find something by asking after each chapter: Did I discover a sin I need to confess? A blessing I should praise God for? A command I should obey? An attitude I should change? There are a total of ten chapters in each book so there should be ten items listed when I am done. Spend a few minutes talking to God about each item.

Friday, October 5, 2007

CONFLICT IN RELATIONSHIPS

This past Sunday in our series on blending families we dealt with the subject of handling conflict. One point made is that we should discover that potential causes of conflict before hand in order to as Barney Fife would say, “nip it in the bud”. This week we will look at some cause of relationship conflicts and how we can handle them.

MONDAY: GREED

1. Read Genesis 25:19-34. Who was partial to Jacob? Esau?
2. For what does Esau trade his birthright? In Old Testament times the birthright dealt with the material inheritance from the parents. The inheritance was divided into the number of sons plus one, with the oldest son getting the double share. By virtue of being the oldest twin Esau would receive the double inheritance. However, we see here that he trades away his birthright).
3. What sin do you think motivated Jacob to force Esau to trade away his birthright? What sin motivated Esau to give up his birthright so foolishly? Who do you think was more in the wrong?

FAITH STEP: In what areas of your life have you allowed greed to hurt your relationships? Esau “despised” or did not value his birthright. Are their some blessings God has given you that you have not valued? Are their blessings from God that you are forfeiting in order to get some temporary pleasure in the present at the expense of losing future blessings? Ask God to help you to never give up future blessings for present temporary satisfaction.

TUESDAY: SHOWING PARTIALITY

1. Read Genesis 27:1-42. (Blessings pronounced by the head of the family were considered binding in Patriarchal times. In this passage an aged Isaac seeks to put his in order by giving his blessing to Esau. ) Remembering Genesis 25:28 – Who was Rebekah’s favorite? Isaac’s favorite?
2. Who “cooks up” the plot so Jacob can steal Esau blessing?
3. What resulted from the parents’ partiality (See verses 41-45)?

FAITH STEP: In what relationships (at work, school, home or church) have you felt overlooked or favored? Are their relationships where you have been guilty of showing partiality? Read Genesis 32:1-21 and 33:1-20 and see how Jacob and Esau's relationship worked out. Are there some grudges, resentment you need to put behind you? Who is it you need to meet this week and patch up a relationship?

WEDNESDAY: OVER INDULGENCE

1. Eli had two sons, Hophni and Phinehas. What sins were they guilty of committing (I Samuel 2:12-17, 22)?
2. Read I Samuel 3:11-14. Why is the Lord angry with Eli? Why do you think Eli did not deal with his children’s sinful lifestyle? Read I Samuel 4:1-11 to see what eventually happened to Eli’s sons.

FAITH STEP: How can over indulging someone in a relationship harm that person instead of helping them? How does it harm your relationship with that person? When God convicts you of some sin or failure how do you react? Like Eli or like Samuel (See I Samuel 3:1-21)? What relationship do you need to make changes because over indulgence is hurting the person you love?

THURSDAY: JEALOUSY

1. In Genesis 37:1-4 we see another case of parental partiality. Who was the father guilty of the partiality? Why is this ironic (See Monday’s lesson)? What was the result of the partiality?
2. Did the brothers have a right to hate Joseph? Be jealous? What did their hatred and jealousy lead them to do (Genesis 37:12-36) – How many sins did you identify? What does this teach you about jealousy?
3. Jealousy is powerful. It allows the person you are jealous to control your emotions – you are giving them the power to control your life. Read the following Scriptures and write down how jealousy can affect relationships: Proverbs 6:34, I Corinthians 3:3, James 3:16.

FAITH STEP: Jealousy can destroy relationships. We can’t change the circumstances or deny our feelings, so we must overcome jealousy by changing your point of view. Read the following verses and see what we can do to help us over come envy? Galatians 6:4, Philippians 4:11, Romans 12:15, Colossians 3:2, Proverbs 23:17-19. Spend time in prayer asking God to help you overcome jealousy. Make a list of 10 blessings you have form God and spend time in praise thanking him for what you do have. Finish this sentence. “When I get to heaven the firs thing I am going to do is _____________. The right focus will help us overcome envy.

FRIDAY: UNRESOLVED ANGER

Anger is usually a symptom of a deeper problem. It is like a warning light on our car that should not be ignored but dealt with in order to help us live a better life. Anger is usually rooted in one of three causes: fear, frustrations or hurt.
1. What fears do you have in your relationships that may make you react in anger? Afraid people are not telling you the truth? Afraid you may lose something or someone?
2. What frustrations do you have that may cause anger? Do you feel unappreciated? Taken for granted at work or home? That no one cares?
3. What hurts are you carrying that may cause anger? Have you been rejected by someone? Mistreated? Abused? Finding the root cause of our anger is the beginning of learning to deal with it.
4. Read Ephesians 4:26-27. When should we deal with anger? How can unresolved anger give the devil a foothold?
5. Read the following verses and write down what you learn about how to deal with anger. James 1:19, Ephesians 4:29, Proverbs 13:10, Ephesians 4:15

FAITH STEP: Write down the fears, frustrations or hurts that is the root of your anger. In a non accusatory, non threatening way can you share these feelings with the person(s) who is the recipient of your anger? If you feel you cannot do that share your thoughts with a fellow Christian and have them pray with you about your anger.

SATURDAY: RELATIONSHIP ADVICE FROM GOD

Below are just a few commands from God. After reading each one answer the question – “How does this apply to my relationships with my family (children spouse, ex, in-laws etc.)? Co-workers/Classmates? Church family?

Colossians 3:13 (Conflict resolution)
Colossians 3:10-13 (Communications)
Philippians 2:3-4 (Decision making)

Friday, September 28, 2007

GUILTY NO MORE

MONDAY: YOU ARE FORGIVEN

The Black Plague which struck Europe in the 14th Century was one of the worse disasters in human history. Over i.5 million people died during this terrible period. People, desperate to find hope and relief, would try anything. One of the most extreme groups of people was the Flagellants. This fanatical sect sought God’s forgiveness and deliverance from the Plague by traveling in groups throughout towns and torturing their naked bodies by whipping each other with iron whips. Today we hear about the Flagellants and think, “how senseless. Didn’t they know that Jesus died for our sins so that we do not have to bear its punishment?” Yet many Christians are 21st Century Flagellants today. We may not physical beat ourselves over our sins but emotionally and mentally many of us continue to carry the guilt of son that was confessed, repented of and Christ died for. This week we want to look at how we can find relief from guilt of forgiven sin. I would like to recommend a You Tube presentation for you to watch. It is skit that shows God’s love for you. If you have the capability please watch it. It is found at: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LvxWVHzEZ1w&mode=related&search=

What did the video above show you about God’s love for you? Write down your feelings about God in a short note to God.

FAITH STEP: Who can you share this video clip with? Make arrangements to do so this week.

TUESDAY: GOOD GUILT/BAD GUILT

Scripture clearly states that Jesus died to get rid of our guilt, yet many Christians are still haunted daily by guilt. We need to realize that not all guilt is bad. That there are two types of guilt. “Good guilt” is from the Holy Spirit. This guilt is short term and is used by God to lead us to repentance and to a relationship with Him. “Bad guilt” is from Satan. It is long term guilt. It comes when Satan beats us down with accusations, remorse and regrets from repented of sin that God has forgiven and forgotten along time ago. Let’s look at examples of both.

1. Read John 16:5-11. What does the Holy Spirit world of? What is the goal of the Holy Spirit’s conviction?
2. Read Revelation 12:10. Who is the “accuser of our brothers”? How has Satan used “false guilt” to discourage you in the past? What sins that God has already forgiven you for are still haunting you?

FAITH STEP: Take a piece of paper and write down the sins that you have already confessed but that Satan continues to accuse you of. Take that piece of paper and safely take a match and burn up the list. Now spend a few minutes thanking God for the forgiveness he has given you.

WEDNESDAY: GUILT FROM OTHERS
There is one other type of “bad or false guilt” we must deal with. Sometimes judgmental and unforgiving people will continue to load us down with guilt. In some cases they may be accurate, in that they are pointing their finger at a sin that we did commit but repented of. In other case they may be making false accusations. But we will always deal with people who will try to make us feel guilty. How are we to deal with these types of people?

1. What are some things that people accused Jesus of (Matthew 11:19)? Did he let these accusations stop Him from doing God’s will?
2. Read Galatians 1:10. Whose opinion should I be worried about?

FAITH STEP: If Jesus, the perfect Son of God could not please everybody, than I know I can’t please everyone either. My goal should be to please God and God alone. Who in your life is loading you down with false guilt? Pray for them by name asking God to help you love them and refuse to let their guilt rob you of God’s peace.

THURSDAY: LETTING GO OF THE PAST

1. Read 2 Samuel 11:1-27. List the sins that David committed in this chapter. How did God feel about David’s sins (11:27)?
2. Read 2 Samuel 12:1-13. How did David respond when confronted with the fact he sinned against God? What did God do with David’s sin (12:13)? What did David do to receive God’s forgiveness (12:13)?
3. Read 1 Kings 14:8. How did God later describe David? What does that show you about God’s forgiveness?

FAITH STEP: Please notice that even though David was completely forgiven, their was still consequences for his actions that had to be paid. For example, in today’s world a man who commits murder can be forgiven immediately but he will still have to serve his sentence. A person who misused his body with drugs for years cam be quickly forgiven but still suffer the physical consequences. The good news for a Christian is that God can use those consequences for His glory if we trust him and give them over to Him. The old adage “God never wastes a hurt” is true, even if the hurt is caused by our earlier sins. Ask God to help you use your consequences in ministry for his glory.

FRIDAY: FORGIVEN FOREVER

1. How did Paul describe his life before he met Jesus (1 Corinthians 15:9, Galatians 1:13, 1 Timothy 1:13)?
2. Read 1 Timothy 1:15-16. Paul seems to be telling his readers that I am the worse of all sinners. It doesn’t matter what you’ve done - I was worse and God forgave me. He will forgive you.
FAITH STEP: Read the following Scriptures and write down what God says he has done with your sins. Isaiah 1:18 Psalm 103:12, Micah 7:18-19.

SATURDAY: 1:8-2:2 THE POWER OF CONFESSION
1. How does one who believes he has never sinned nor does sin deceive himself?
2. John, writing to Christians, says we should confess (admit) our sins to God. What does God promise to do when we confess our sins?
3. What does purified mean to you? How does the fact that God purifies us from ALL unrighteousness make you feel?
4. When we do sin, who speaks to the Father on our behalf?
5. What type of sacrifice was Jesus for our sins? Look up a definition for the word “atone”.
FAITH STEP: The key to receiving God’s forgiveness is confessing our sins. Sometimes Christians deny their sins or rationalize them or blame others for them. Such game playing keeps us from enjoying God’s forgiveness. Read aloud I John 2:1 and claim the truth found there. As a child of God you are not guilty you are forgiven! Confess any unconfessed sins and realize that after confession if you are still carrying a burden of guilt – that that guilt is not from God but Satan. Write “I am forgiven” on a card and place it somewhere where you can be reminded everyday that you are free from the guilt of your sin.

Wednesday, September 19, 2007

LEARNING TO LOVE

The Bible says the most important commands are “to love” (Mark 12:28-33). Jesus’ teachings on love were radical to a society that believed that their “neighbor” was people just like them and their enemies were anybody who was “not one of them”. Today, His teachings on love are still considered radical in a hateful, hurting world. This week we will take a brief unexhaustive look at what the Lord says about love.

MONDAY: LOVE ONE ANOTHER

1. Read John 13:34 – Why is this command new? (Compare with Leviticus 19:18).
2. How much does Jesus love you? (Romans 5:8, I John 3:16) What do these verses teach us about how we are to love each other? How can you “lay down your life for your fellow believers” (See 1 John 3:17)?

FAITH STEP: Who do you know this week that you can touch with the “love of Jesus”? Find one fellow Christian and help them in a practical way – before the week is over.

TUESDAY: GOD’S LOVE FOR YOU

I believe it is easier to love others when we recognize how much God loves us. Many people, believers and nonbelievers fail to experience God’s love. Today I want us to read some passages from God’s Word. After reading each verse write down one thing from that verse that shows you how much God loves you.

Psalm 48:9
Psalm 136:26
I John 4:9-10
Jeremiah 31:13
Ephesians 2:4-5
Romans 8:35-39

FAITH STEP: Where would you be without God’s love in your life? Spend a few minutes praising God for his love for you. Pick one of these verses to memorize this week

WEDNESDAY: LOVING OUR ENEMIES

When God talks about loving others the Greek word that is used is “agape”. It is a word that connotes unconditional selfless actions toward a person. It is not a feeling, it is a choice, it is a commitment to be kept in spite of your feelings. Agape loves does the right thing - the thing that is best for the other person – regardless of your feelings. Keeping that in mind, read Luke 6:27-36.

1. After reading I Corinthians 13:4-8 make a list on how you can love your enemies.
2. After reading Romans 12:17-21. What good deed can you do for your “enemy” (Person you don’t like or doesn’t like you)?
3. Read 1 Peter 3:8-9. How can you respond to your “enemies “curse” with a blessing?

FAITH STEP: Spend few minutes praying for your “enemies” (difficult people in your life) and asking God to help you reach out to them in love.

THURSDAY: LOVING OUR ENEMIES – Part 2

Re-read Luke 6:27-36. Are there limits to “turning one’s cheek” or letting one borrow from you”? (See John 18:23, Acts 22:22-29)
1. Jesus is using hyperbole to teach a life changing principle. Which of these statements are NOT what Jesus is teaching?
· Jesus wants his people to become perpetual victims.
· In a selfish world Jesus wants his disciples to be generous
· In a world that seeks revenge Jesus wants his disciples to offer forgiveness.
2. What two things does God promise to those who learn to love their enemies (verse 35)?
3. Who is to be our example when it comes to us being merciful?

FAITH STEP: Write down the name of a person in your life who needs mercy. What can you do this week to be merciful towards them?

FRIDAY: LOVING YOUR ENEMIES - Part 3

1. Read John 13:1-17. Why did Jesus wash the disciples’ feet? (Verse 1)
2. What did Jesus know that the other disciple’s did not know (Verse 2, 10,11)
3. How do you think Judas felt when Jesus washed his feet?

FAITH STEP: In what relationship do you need to “wash feet” (meet a need through service) this weekend? Make plans and do it.

SATURDAY: GROWING IN LOVE

1. Read I Corinthians 13:4-8. Take a piece a paper and make 5 columns. In column one make a list of God’s characteristics of love found in our reading like this: I am patient, I am kind, I do not envy, I do not boast, I am not proud, I am not rude ,I am not self-seeking, I am not easily angered, I keep no record of wrongs, I do not delight in evil, I rejoice with the truth, I always protect, I always trust, I always hope, I always persevere, My love never fails.
At the top of column two write “With my family”, at the tope of column three write “at church”, at the top if column 4 write “at work” and at the top of column five write “with my enemies.” Now using a rating system of 1-10 (one being “I need a lot of help”, 10 being “I’m great at this”) rate your love in each area of your life. What areas do you need to improve on? Who can help you do that? Spend a few minutes in prayer seeking God’s help to be more loving.

Saturday, September 15, 2007

HOPE FOR HARD TIMES

The book of I Peter was written to God’s people who were beginning to experience persecution. Peter points to Jesus to encourage Christians to remain strong in the face if suffering, mistreatment, ridicule and death. This is in no way intended to be an exhaustive study of this letter – but a short journey to help you venture deeper into the truths found here.

MONDAY: KEEP YOUR EYE ON THE PRIZE (I Peter 1:1-3)

1. What two words/phrases does Peter use to describe the recipients of this letter? (1:1)
2. How does the fact that we are God’s “elect” (chosen people) help Christians keep hopeful when facing tough times?
3. How does the fact that we are “strangers in the world” help us cope with difficult times? (See Hebrew 11:13-16; Philippians 3:20)
As Christians we should strive to live with eternity in view. We are not physical beings having a spiritual existence, but we are spiritual beings having a brief physical experience while here on earth.

FAITH STEP: As a family or individually write down at least three things that you are looking forward to the most when you get to heaven. Keep that list handy so you can review it, especially when suffering.

TUESDAY: A LIVING HOPE (1:3-5)

1. In order to prepare his readers to be ready to withstand the suffering they are facing Peter reminds them of the living hope Christians have. “Living” shows us that this hope is not some sort of idle wish but it is something that is active and eternal – something we can count on daily.
2. What is the basis for our living hope? (See also I Corinthians 15:14,20,57)
3. How is this hope further described in 1:4? What three adjectives does Peter use to assure us that our hope (inheritance) is eternal and can be counted on?
4. Where is God keeping our inheritance?
5. According to verse 5 God also shields his children until we receive that inheritance. What are some ways God guard us in trials?

FAITH STEP: Peter wants to encourage his readers to focus their attention on the living hope and inheritance awaiting them in order to help them persevere in tough times here. Who do you know that needs to know about that hope. Write down their name and call them or send them a note today to encourage them by reminding them of the living hope we have in Christ.

WEDNESDAY: BE HOLY (1:13-16)

1. After focusing his readers’ attention to the hope they have in Christ and encouraging them to rejoice even in suffering because of that hope, Peter now tells them that the relationship they have with Christ should motivate them to live holy lives – even in suffering. Peter tells us to “prepare our minds for action”. What are three ways Peter says we can do this in verses 13-14?
2. As opposed to conforming to evil desires Peter want us, as obedient children, to imitate the Father. The motive for us being holy is our relationship with God – (“Be holy, because I am holy”). Look at I Peter 2:4-10. Peter describes God’s people as a “holy ________” (verse 5) and a “holy _________” (verse 9). In other words as Christians we are to live dedicated to God’s service.

FAITH STEPS: How can you be more holy at home? Work/School? Church? Make a list of area’s you need to improve in and spend some time in prayer asking God to help you “prepare your minds for action” in these areas.

THURSDAY: DEALING WITH MISTREATMENT (2:12-25)

1. Peter’s readers were undergoing government persecution. We may not experience that today but we do at times get overlooked for the promotion, cut from the team or mistreated by harsh bosses. How does God say we should act in these situations 1:13, 17, 21)?
2. What is to motivate us to suffer mistreatment like Jesus (2:12, 15)?
3. Who is our example in how to endure mistreatment?
4. Who are to trust when suffering (2:23)?
5. Are their ever any times where a Christian should take a stand for his/her rights? (See John 2:12-16; Acts 4:18-20) How do you determine what to do?

FAITH STEP: Make a list of the “authorities” in your life. How can you use verses 16-17 to better relate to them in a way that glorifies God?

FRIDAY: THE POWER OF HUMILITY (5:5-11)

1. Why does God tell us to clothe ourselves with humility (5:5)?
2. Verse 6 tells us to humble ourselves before God. In the context of the letter – Christian suffering – Peter is thus urging us to trust God even in the midst of suffering. Why? (1:6-7, 3:8-9, 4:12-13)?
3. According to verse 8 who incites persecution against the Christian? How are we to resist him (5:8,9)?
4. What does God promise to those who faithfully withstand the trials of this life (5:10)?

FAITH STEP: Read 1 Peter 5:7 and Philippians 4:6. Make a list of 10 things that are worrying you and a list of 10 things you are thankful for. . In prayer thank God for the blessings you have and then ask him to take over control of the things worrying you. Claim the peace promised after doing this.

SATURDAY: Take a few minutes to read all of 1 Peter. Find one command that you really need to focus on obeying, one promise that you can claim, one blessing to thank God for and one description of God that you wan to praise him for. Write these down on an index card and carry them with you this next week to review as you go through your daily routine.

Welcome to UpWords

Welcome to UpWords. For a long time I have desired to over a ministry for Stop 9 members (and others) where a weekly Bible Study guide can be offered to help believers spend a little time in the Word on a regular basis. I hope these lessons will be user friendly and easily adaptable for both personal and family devotional times. The goal is to have the studies correspond with subjects or Scriptures covered in our Sunday AM assembly. While I will not guarantee to have new material on a weekly basis – I hope to provide it on a regular basis. I hope this effort will help us all keep our focus upward to heaven through the use of “upwords” that will help us keep our eye on the prize. May God bless your spiritual journey.